WOOHOO!! K came to visit yesterday. Parents really liked her and loved having Marlene for afternoon. Don't think it will take any time at all for them to get a dog now. When K went to collect M she wouldn't leave Dad's side and he kept waffling on at her about walks you can do nearby. SO embarrassing...she's not going to know what you're going on about Dad...shut up!
She loved the Tweety Pie and M on rollerskates drawings I'd done for her. She bought me 2 Diva mags, a Paint-A-Mug set and her Dalmatian Jasper bracelet, which looks like a Flinstones bracelet but has healing properties specific to Geminis and removes negative thoughs.
We went to hospital cafe, had proper tea, walked round hosp grouns, went back to cafe, came back to my room and chatted for hours. Canular was hurting and thought it might be blocked again. When they started to do drugs rounds she said she'd better get going and asked if I was OK (think I looked quite anxious about canular). Replied I was OK and was she? She then leaned in slowly. I leaned in slowly and we (FINALLY) had our first snog. Was quite simply the best ever. She said "You've gone bright red." I laughed and said "So have you! What took you so long?" She replied "What took YOU so long?" Snogged again, then she left. She'd been here for 5 hours! Then I had my obs done. Pulse rate high. BP sky high and temp up whole degree! Mum then arrived and was gushing bout how lovely K is and how she adores M who fell asleep and snored on her lap while she watched TV.
K called at 10pm. We talked til 11. She apparently took wrong exit off A23 because she was daydreaming bout the day. Am REALLY happy. Everytime I see/talk to her it's like minutes...the time just flies. It's so easy with her. Cannot WAIT to see her again, so hope I get to go home today and get the chance to go back to Brighton on Fri cos she's dogsitting for Paula and Laurie this wknd so she won't be able to come here.
Who knows what will come of this...all I know is that I haven't felt like this for YEARS...and it feels fantastic. The old Pip is back and I'd missed her.
Daisy's back in hosp. Her stoma's stopped working and she's now on liquidised diet. Asked Dad to copy M Boosh CDs and send them to her. It's vital to be able to block out sounds from other rooms here...even more so on a General Ward. So if I get out I'll copy and send a load more new stuff. This treatment WILL work for me and her treatment WILL work for her. It''s just so frustrating to not be able to plan anything because things can change so instantly for both of us. At least we both understand what each other is going through, perhaps a little more than other people do and it's helpful to be able to get each other through it.
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